“When I started in business, I was often lonely, so I placed favorite quotes all over my apartment. They made me feel like I was never really alone. I would type up and print out my favorites on a piece of paper or cut them out of magazines and tape them to my wall.”
“Learning how someone else is already doing the same thing you want to do, or a version of it, can eliminate fear—every path is easier to follow when you see someone else’s footprints already on it.”
“…seek as much advice as I can—from everyone. You can often get great advice from all kinds of people if you just ask.” — Blake Mycoskie
“Learn all you can from your mentors. Try to work alongside them. Their passion will amplify your passion. The concept of an apprentice is an ancient and wise one, and if you can find such a position early in your career and have the chance to work with a master, take it! The enthusiasm, deep understanding, and endless curiosity of a true expert will infect you, whether you are simply trying to reinforce your own knowledge about a hobby or interest, or whether you are figuring out the kind of entrepreneur you want to become.”
“…I collected many more wonderful mentors. To this day, I keep lists of gardens, gardeners, and nurseries…”
“…I have met many brilliant entrepreneurs from whom I have collected many ideas and new perspectives.” — Martha Stewart
“Think tactically: not emotionally.” – Kobe Bryant
Failure is an emotion that gets in the way of your analysis of a failed attempt. Instead of getting stuck in the emotional distress and disappointment of failing, you need to FOCUS on determining why your attempt failed. What weakness(es) or circumstance(s) contributed to the failed attempt and what steps can you take to correct the problem? So, when an attempt at something doesn’t work, you can tactically analyze the problem, pinpoint the issue and take action to make corrections.
In Brett Ledbetter’s video, he highlights an interview with Kobe Bryant in which he was confronted with the poor performance of his early career and the brutal public criticism that accompanied it. Listen closely to Bryant’s explanation of why he feels failure doesn’t exist.
Bryant’s comments about failure are so fascinating! His perceptions of failure are based on the fact that “the story continues.” If you fail on Monday, you have Tuesday to try again. Bryant goes on to explain that the only way to fail is to “stop and to not learn.” So, if you learned from the failure and go on to grow and improve your game, it wasn’t a failure.
Wow! What an idea… You have the power to flip the script. You can measure your success by how much you grow and learn: not by the outcome. Be the best that YOU can be; don’t measure your success against the success of other people.
In the game of life, you must discover the “game” worth playing — the game YOU were meant to play. Next, you have to FOCUS on growing and learning; don’t give into temptation and wallow in the disappointment of a failed attempt. Keep moving forward and don’t play to win or lose; play to LEARN and GROW.
“…I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead…” — Philippians 3:13b
The past couple of days I have been questioning my ability to be an instructional coach and this morning I found encouragement from a few of my own blog posts as well as some words of wisdom from Captain Jean-Luc Picard. I share them here, lest I forget…
“The only person you’re truly competing against is yourself.”
“It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose.”
“So, we must never forget that ‘meeting standards’ means more than just teaching and testing content and skills. Only when students can use content and skill, in challenging performance tasks, to a high degree of rigor, are we allowed to say that they ‘meet standards.'” – Grant Wiggins, Why a Standard is Really Three Standards in One
Momentum –> strength or force gained by motion or by a series of events
When you stall out on making stuff, creating the things that feed your passion and giving your best to the world, STOP and FOCUS. Encourage yourself and speak life into the situation. Take action so you don’t stay stuck.
Keep moving forward by taking ACTION because…
“The more momentum you have the more motivation you’ll feel.”
Reframe your thoughts so that you…
“Start thinking about how to RISE to another level of SERVICE.”
And most of all…
“Challenge yourself to SERVE with full JOY and full heart!”
Gain momentum, strength and force right now by taking ACTION that will move you FORWARD, make you happy and help others on their journey.